GET BACK UP ❤️‍🩹

THE TIME HAS COME TO

despite all the pain they cause, breakups are full of lessons that lead to self-expansion. a fantastic catalyst for change, sorrow, when used as a driving force, pushes us to develop the best version of ourselves.

but how do you actually do this when you feel devastated? when you are trapped in doubt in a relationship that no longer works? how to let go and dare to leave? how do you get back up when you feel destroyed?

this essay invites you to explore the twists and turns of a successful breakup, in a process that will take you deep within yourself to discover your light and let it shine to the world. so grab some tea or coffee, sit on your couch, and let yourself be carried away by this message of hope to shift your focus from the past to the future.

i wrote this essay 10 days before leaving for Colombia in March 2024 following a breakup with my ex-fiancé. in it i share the process and the tools that allowed me to get back up and redefine the continuation of my path

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🇬🇧 what readers are saying

🇬🇧 good evening my beautiful Violette, I'm fine, I'm already halfway through the book

and it's already given me the strength to expand my comfort zone

🇬🇧 I really liked this essay! 💝 sometimes it strangely reminds me of the letter I wrote to him with similar ideas. For my part, I just have the impression of not being able to write down my thoughts exactly, whereas you are much clearer! In any case, thank you for this essay! I could feel everything you wrote and it always resonates with me. I hope that writing has been beneficial to you, writing is so healing 🌟 have a nice end to the day Violette!! 🌙

🇬🇧 congratulations for this book and thank you

🇬🇧 I devoured your guide which I will rename if you allow it "breaking up with one's false self". you have the talent to use words, fluid and simple sentences to describe the complex of unawakened existence. a precious gift ☺️ I recognized myself in hindsight, whereas in vivo I was not aware of all this inner mutation. this irrepressible need to finally exist. not to endure one's life but just to live it, guided sometimes by pain and wandering, sometimes by the faith of an exalted life, lived fully. I invite you to continue writing, to express in all its forms the sound of your heart as you do

🇬🇧 I'm on page 20, exactly what I needed.

thank you.

I made the decision 3 days ago to separate and I received guidance which reassured me in my choice.

this essay comes at the right time and gives me the necessary strength to take action: tell him

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🇬🇧 the book has been ordered, you are inspiring, you lift the masks that are sometimes so hard to remove, thank you...

🇬🇧 Good evening Violette, I'm writing you a little note this evening because I must have been subscribed to you since October or November... and your reels were already echoing in me. I'm not separated but I've been thinking about doing so for months or even years now, and I feel like change is coming for me. I bought your Little book this evening and just finished it. I just wanted to write to you to tell you how good it feels to read what I'm experiencing, what I'm thinking... because I feel less alone, less crazy, it gives me strength and above all that puts ideas in order.

I reject experiencing this suffering that you describe and that I felt in this video where you cry, but I know that I will go through it, and I feel deep within me that it is for good.

bravo for the courage, determination and time you spend sharing all of this.

Thank you 🙏🏽

Anne

🇬🇧 I read it and I couldn't even stop, I finished the book in one go. I find that you have a disconcerting ease in transcribing and putting into words your emotions and that has always touched me a lot in any case thank you it was great!

moreover it even allowed me to make a decision that I did not feel capable of making so know that your content impacts, at least for my part in a positive way, our lives 💕

I hope you continue on this path

🇬🇧 thank you because it’s your videos and your essay that allowed me to start thinking more and take action ❤️

🇬🇧 hello, I finally got to read your book! and it opened my eyes to certain aspects, especially when you talk about our dreams. I know mine but I put them on standby, telling myself that I will realize them later, after this or after that, and finally I just did some research on the internet to see what possibilities could be available for me to realize them, and I feel the excitement building inside me, and damn it feels good! I realize that the projects I'm giving myself at the moment, New Zealand and even Vietnam which I just added at short notice (I'm leaving next week, I'm the impulsive type 🙄) were in fact just the projects that I had with my ex. I had convinced myself that this was what I wanted, simply to go in its direction (the fear of being alone and of abandonment we thank you) anyway, THANK YOU for this awareness that your book gave me on this point but on others too 🙏🫶

a pesar de todo el dolor que causan, las rupturas están llenas de lecciones que conducen a la autoexpansión. fantástico catalizador del cambio, el dolor provocado, utilizado como fuerza motriz, nos empuja a desarrollar la mejor versión de nosotros mismos.

pero, ¿cómo hacerlo realmente cuando te sientes devastado? ¿cuando quedamos atrapados en la duda en una relación que ya no funciona? ¿cómo dejarse llevar y atreverse a partir? ¿cómo te levantas cuando te sientes destruido?

este ensayo te invita a explorar los giros y vueltas de una ruptura exitosa, en un proceso que te llevará a lo más profundo de ti mismo.a para descubrir tu luz y dejarla brillar en el mundo. así que toma un té o un café, siéntate en tu sofá y déjate llevar por este mensaje de esperanza para cambiar tu enfoque del pasado al futuro ✨

escribí este ensayo 10 días antes de partir a Colombia en marzo de 2024 luego de mi ruptura con mi ex prometido. comparto el proceso y las herramientas que me permitieron levantarme y redefinir el resto de mi camino.

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🇪🇸 lo que dicen los lectores

🇪🇸Buenas noches mi bella Violette, estoy bien, ya voy por la mitad del libro

y ya me ha dado fuerzas para ampliar mi zona de confort

🇪🇸 ¡Me ha gustado mucho este pequeño ensayo! 💝 A veces me recuerda extrañamente a la carta que le escribí con ideas similares. Por mi parte, tengo la impresión de no poder escribir exactamente mis pensamientos, ¡mientras que tú eres mucho más clara! En cualquier caso, ¡gracias por este ensayo! Pude sentir todo lo que escribiste y siempre resuena en mí. Espero que escribir te haya resultado beneficioso, escribir es muy curativo 🌟 ¡Que tengas un buen final de día, Violette! 🌙

🇪🇸 Felicitaciones por este libro y gracias.

🇪🇸 Devoré tu guía, a la que rebautizaré si me lo permites como "ruptura con el falso yo". Tienes el talento de usar palabras, frases fluidas y sencillas para describir el complejo de la existencia no despierta. Un regalo precioso ☺️ Me reconocí en retrospectiva, mientras que en vivo no era consciente de toda esta mutación interior. Esta necesidad irreprimible de existir finalmente. No de soportar la propia vida sino simplemente de vivirla, guiada a veces por el dolor y el vagabundeo, a veces por la fe de una vida exaltada, vivida plenamente. Te invito a seguir escribiendo, a expresar en todas sus formas el sonido de tu corazón como lo haces.

🇪🇸 Estoy en la página 20, justo lo que necesitaba.

Gracias

Hace 3 días que tomé la decisión de separarme y recibí orientación que me tranquilizó en mi elección.

Este ensayo llega en el momento justo y me da la fuerza necesaria para actuar: díselo

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🇪🇸 El libro ha sido pedido, eres inspiradora, levantas las máscaras que a veces son tan difíciles de quitar, gracias...

🇪🇸 Buenas noches Violette, te escribo una pequeña nota esta noche porque debo estar suscrita a ti desde octubre o noviembre... y tus reels ya resonaban en mí. No estoy separada pero llevo meses o incluso años pensando en hacerlo y siento que se acerca un cambio para mí. Compré tu librito esta noche y lo acabo de terminar. Solo quería escribirte para decirte lo bien que me siento leyendo lo que estoy viviendo, lo que estoy pensando... porque me siento menos sola, menos loca, me da fuerza y sobre todo eso pone las ideas en orden.

Rechazo vivir este sufrimiento que describes y que sentí en este video donde lloras, pero sé que lo voy a pasar, y siento en lo más profundo de mí que es para bien.

Bravo por el coraje, la determinación y el tiempo que dedicas a compartir todo esto.

Gracias 🙏🏽